Who is she?
Nilam could be a rather unusual character because her active number 22 is a master number. On first meeting her, she gives an impression of strength followed by a combination of charm, pride, conceit and reserve. If she is able to live in harmony with the vibrations of the 22, she will slowly but very surely advance towards the highest peaks... It really doesn't make the slightest difference whether she has a suitcase made of cardboard or a set of luxury luggage! Her strengths are her creativity, her self-mastery, ambition, an iron-will and obstination as well as her capacity for work. Life won't always be free of nervous tension or difficulty however, because the 22 is synonymous with a high level of nervous tension. Nevertheless, most of the time Nilam lives a more easy-going and peaceful life, an octave below at the level of the number 4, the reduced and more laid back expression of the number 22 which endows her with great capacity for reflection, prudence, perseverance, stability, emotional clarity and a sense of duty; but also a tendency to worry and doubt. She is strong-willed and capable of great effort and energy for a long-term project, something for which she is perfectly suited because time is on her side and patience is one of her finer qualities. On the other hand, she is terribly stubborn and quite capable of holding a grudge. Furthermore, she has a great need for security and is rather possessive - controlling even. As a child, Nilam is quite disciplined and could have a gift for languages or an artistic talent (singing or music) which it would be wise to encourage her to develop. She will need help in learning to assert herself and shape her personality, by being tolerant with her outbursts of authoritarianism while keeping a close eye on her relationship with her siblings whom she tends to try and dominate - or even bully, especially if she is the eldest.
What does she like?
Nilam likes to win, to be looked at and admired. She enjoys luxury as well as being held in high esteem by others because she has high ideals. Romantically speaking, she has plenty of qualities, most notably her personal integrity and honesty. Accomplished housewife and a wonderful hostess, she can nevertheless be quite selective and authoritarian... Her partner is expected to be not only seductive and brilliant, but also willing to participate fully in everyday life; both on a financial and emotional level. Her perfect man would be able to both respect her need to be the best and dominate her at the same time. This means that things could be stormy for a while before reaching a state of harmony in the relationship...
What does she do?
Nilam has several strings to her bow and could choose from one of many occupations although her day of birth could have a bearing on her career. If she was born on a 1st, 10th, 19th, 28th, or a 3rd, 12th, 21st or 30th; she will be drawn to creative activities (esthetics, art or fashion...) or those involving communication and expression (journalism, writing or teaching). If she was born on the 4th, 7th, 13th, 16th, 22nd, 25th or 31st day of the month, she is more likely to turn to the natural sciences, or accounting, management or business. In an ideal world, she would occupy a position of power or exercise her chosen profession as an independent entity.
Note: Two or more first names can have the same meaning - this is intended. Indeed, the names have the same numerology numbers. It's just like in astrology when two people with the same sign share the same characteristics!