Beneath the calm surface, Mery
is shy, complex and undefinable at first glance. An original, cerebral and even intellectual lady she possesses an enquiring, critical and analytical mind. She is prone to scepticism which gives her a rather dark sense of humour. A little out of the ordinary, she may at first seem awkward, odd or eccentric. The combination of the 3 and 4 is twofold and the result is a certain amount of inner-conflict. Security, stability and comfort appeal to her anxious nature, although paradoxically she quickly tires of the daily routine... She is always in a hurry, even though she functions at a much slower pace. Some days she's the ant and others she's the grasshopper. If the 3 is active (if she was born on the 3rd, 12th, 21st or 30th of the month, or if her Life Path Number
is 3), she'll be communicative, mobile and a little dissipated. On the other hand, if the 4 is active (Life Path Number
of 4, a birthday on the 4th, 13th, 22nd or 31st of the month), she is likely to embark on her chosen path with aplomb and determination, dealing expertly with challenges as they present themselves. As a child, it is best to keep an eye on her and make sure she doesn't spend too much time shut in her room by herself immersed in her books - she needs encouragement to develop the sociable and creative elements of her personality. It's true that she feels somehow different to others, due in part to her interests and concerns that are not always those of other young girls her age, and so feeling left out, she can easily become withdrawn. Her health can be fragile as a result of her acute nervousness, and getting enough physical exercise and relaxation is vital for her well-being.